A lot of couples are now considering inviting someone else into their private space to boost their sexual life. How can you tell? Well, first, there has been an increase in the number of threesome apps all over the world. Also, you probably know a couple that have tried or still engage in threesomes only that they might be doing it secretly.
The first question that most people have when they hear couples looking for threesomes is whether this is even possible. While you may think this is only reserved for young lovers, you will be surprised by the high number of married couples that are also looking for threesomes. But why are married couples still interested in threesomes? Here are a couple of reasons.
We’ve had the idea for a while
One of the main reasons why many couples are trying to engage in more threesomes is that they have had the fantasy for a while. There has been a lot of changes in how people perceive threesomes over the last few decades. Threesomes have moved from being considered a very dirty taboo to becoming a fun escapade for committed individuals. Now they are regarded as another sexual option for women and couples that want to explore their sexuality with other people. But what exactly has changed? People still had the idea before but didn’t practice it, right?
A shift in culture and norms especially with regards to sex and relationships has made it possible for the society to embrace threesomes. Although threesomes were mostly something that you saw in porn, today they are something that you discuss with your friends over brunch.
Pop culture
Pop culture has also played a significant role in how people think of threesomes. As the topic of threesomes becomes more mainstream, the popular TV stations and music artistes have also adopted this. For example, some shows are now portraying the possibility of people accepting threesomes into their marriage. House of Cards, a popular Netflix show depicted the president and his wife participating in a threesome with a secret service agent. This shows that the practice continues to get accepted everyday. Broad city also shows one of the main characters, Ilana looking so hard to have a threesome with here best friend Abby. Other pop artistes that have shown their support for threesomes include Lady gaga, T-pain and Miley Cyrus among others.
Past experiences
Couples with previous experiences in threesomes are much more likely to participate in threesomes as opposed to those with no prior experience whatsoever. A recent study revealed that about 24% of males and about 8% of females had engaged in a threesome before. Out of the high number of people who have had threesomes before, a significant number of these do not mind having it again. Having a threesome opens you up to the potential benefit that you can accrue from having another person join you and your partner. It not only helps improve sexual satisfaction but is also good for your sexual health.
Change in attitudes
Recent studies have established that the millennial generation may perhaps be displaying some of the highest religious and even political disaffiliations than other groups. This has led to a shift in attitudes especially with regards to threesomes and other sexual practices that were previously considered taboo.
Millennials often show the need to explore sexually hence the need to engage in threesomes as a way of keeping things fresh in the relationship. Some people argue that a threesome will not rejuvenate a broken relationship. However, it is likely to strengthen a relationship that is already strong especially if the two partners want to explore more.
How married couples find partners
The advent of technology has mad it quite easy for people to find all the services that they need. But what happens when you have a girl and you are ready for a threesome. The tricky bit is that threesomes are not your everyday sexual fantasy for everyone and asking the wrong person may tick them off. Once you and your partner decide to engage in a threesome, the next question is often who do you want to do it with. Friends may not be the best option as it may complicate your friendship but it is not also easy to get and trust strangers. What are your options?
1. A swingers club
A threesome may seem intimidating hence the need to start slowly instead of just diving head-first. If you are still on the fence about this then the best option would be to visit a swingers club in your hometown. You will be surprised by the love and organization that some of these swingers sites or clubs have. Once you find the perfect swingers club, you will no longer have to look for threesomes in secret sex parties, underground haunts of nudist colonies.
The best thing about swingers clubs is that they organize sex parties in private homes. What’s more, you will also find regular social gatherings for those who are wishing to join the club but are a bit skeptical. Here, you will learn about the swingers lifestyle and some of the rules for swinging.
2. Online searches
The second best place for married couples to get threesomes is through online platforms. Using threesome dating sites may turn out to be pricey. Also, escort services are not exactly cheap, hence the need to look for some affordable services. If you are unable to spend a couple of hundreds or even thousands on a night of pleasure, looking online can be a great choice.
You should, however, proceed with caution when you are looking for a threesome partner on the web. There are a lot of scams online, which may end up with you losing a lot of your hard earned cash. How do you get online sites? A simple search for ‘threesome marriage sites’ will give you a good list of websites. You can then choose among the top choices or read reviews of the online sites before settling on the best ones.
3. Social communities
Another good option is to visit some of the common social communities that support these types of interactions. These communities have a number of forums where you can see discussions and threesome experiences for other married couples. There are a lot of fun conversations and you will be more comfortable discussing about sex in these platforms as opposed to other social media platforms. What are examples of such sites? You might be wondering. Well, FindaThreesum and ThreesomeFriendFinder are good communities to start with.
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By Admin, Last Updated: Mar 15, 2022