Had a Threesome Before: How Do It Happened?

You will be taken aback by the number of people looking to have a threesome but wouldn’t dare mention it, if you conducted a survey. That was me, a while back before I finally ticked it off my bucket list. I had for a long time been fascinated by the idea of having one. Well, I cannot say that I had it all so easy. Threesomes have been regarded as a taboo for the longest time ever: some people still have their reservations to date. What I am trying to say is, it took me years of figuring out how I would fulfil this wild desire. Then an opportunity presented itself. It was when my boyfriend of three years and I were talking over brunch that the topic came up.

I came to find out that it was also a fantasy that he had not been able to fulfil. We made jokes about it and came to a consensus that we should add some fun to our relationship. Since we could not ask one of our friends to join in a threesome, we concluded that a threesome finder was the way to go for threesome hookups. In about three weeks we managed to fix ourselves a threesome.

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How did it happen?

The talk

Since none of us was open about sexuality, the idea of it made us all edgy. But hey! We had to get this done with. However, we both felt the need to have a sober discussion and set boundaries before the D- day. If you have not had a threesome before, it is crucial that you note the points I am about to mention are worth considering. We had to walk through a set of boundaries, which I may, unfortunately conceal as they are bit personal.

Jealousy could not be left out of this conversation; we had to talk about what to do in the event one of us felt envious and left out. Last and most importantly, safe sex. You know the rule, better safe than sorry. That said, we were ready to proceed to the next step.

The wait

We had kept tabs with our guest (I'll call her Claire) and agreed first to grab cocktails and maybe some bitings at one of the fine spots in the city. The idea was to have a neutral point of picking her before returning to our apartment. I felt that it would make her less nervous and we would get time to build rapport and clear the air. I was the first one to get there: I am not the most patient person, especially if it involves having to wait for something that is already giving me butterflies. Nevertheless, she eventually arrived, had a drink, some chat then left for home.

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Trio in bed

It must have been the tensest moment I have ever documented, Claire and I stood there blankly staring at each other. It was until my boyfriend broke the ice by saying that we should get it going already. Claire was the first to make a move, she came to me, kissed me gently as she undressed me. I could see my boyfriend wear a grin shortly before he joined us. I must say that I was happy that he seemed to be paying more attention to me than our guest. Everything was done right, making it the best threesome I have had: I am yet to have another one.

Time to say goodbye

I was impressed by our guest’s thoughtfulness for the reason that after all was said and done, she requested for an Uber and spared the three of us an awkward moment. I must have enjoyed it because I managed to let out a thank you for the best threesome as I saw Claire out.